Friday 9 March 2018

How many sexual partners should you have?

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‘Dr James Dobson has all but made a career out of advising people to have as few sex partners in their lives as possible, saying "the more partners you have, the less you will properly bond with someone -- and therefore the greater the chance you will divorce."’


Family Talk is a Christian non-profit organization located in Colorado Springs, Colorado.
Founded in 2010 by Dr. James Dobson.
The ministry promotes and teaches biblical principles that support marriage, family, and child-development.
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The incarnated god, Jesus, established the Christian religion by issuing 40 commandments at the beginning of his ministry at ‘The Sermon On The Mount’
He said them straight away because he didn’t know if his human body would survive to complete his ministry.
Jesus’ 40 commandments are essential, and those who do not make a daily effort to incorporate them into their lives are not Jesus Christians.


Jesus commanded those who follow him not to engage in sex in any form outside of marriage
No masturbation. No lustful thoughts. Nothing.
He stated that it was his will that marriage be for life, though he would put up with divorce on the sole ground of adultery


The Apostle Paul built his life upon and around Jesus’ 40 commandments
Jesus had specifically commanded his followers not to judge others at any time ever
Paul amended this to allow church leaders to judge church members
Had he not done so he would not have been able to construct the Christian church
So it is clear that Jesus’ commandments can be adapted to a critical need


Every member of the Apostle Paul’s church built their lives upon and around Jesus’ 40 commandments, to the extent of selling all they owned, giving the money to the church, living in commune and handing their wages to the church
So when Paul wrote to a Church he was writing to those who gave everything they had to God as routine


Paul instructed his church that married people were no longer two people. They became one person
The wife was to have free use of her husbands body and could have sex whenever she wanted it
The husband was to have free use of his wife’s body and could have sex whenever he wanted it
He did not go into ‘time of the month’, illness or disability. He established these principles and left all else to common sense


At the time of Paul’s ministry, between 36AD and 68AD there were no newspapers, magazines, novels, films, cinemas, videos, TVs, media advertising or internet.
Ordinary working people were not consciously and unconsciously inflaming themselves into flirting athletes and sexual gymnasts. Today they are. The cat's out of the bag, and in Western countries it is not going back in, this side of shar ia. 
But sadly it seems that no one in the church has enough spiritual standing with Jesus to adapt his commandment on marriage as Paul adapted his commandment on judging


There is ‘Engagement’ and there is Marriage
There is the Church Marriage and there is the civil legal Marriage Licence
Christian couples should be able to have a small Church Marriage upon engagement
with a 6-month review. If they are not then compatible they should be allowed a Church divorce on the grounds of Adultery Of The Mind

Those who have decided they are compatible at the 6-month review can then have a large, formal Life Marriage and apply for a civil legal Marriage Licence
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