Wednesday 21 February 2018

A love relationship is forever

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When two people fall in love that love is God.
That is what God looks and feels like. That is who he is.

Humans are obsessed with the idea that God would be stupid enough to give them free choice
Where is the free choice in love?
There is none
That is the way God created humans
You will worship him whether you want to or not. You have no choice because he IS love.
When two people genuinely fall in love

they create God as a third party in that relationship
because God is that love


God expects a love relationship to be forever
That is possible if both people commit to the love
Not to the other person, but to the love


God expects each partner to commit to the love
with all their heart, with all their mind, with all their strength and with all their soul
You can do that if you train yourself to be conscious at all times
that the love between you and your partner
is the most important thing in your life
above everything else, without exception


Men naturally think that because they are ‘providers’ their work must come first
God says ‘no’. The love you have with your partner is way more important than your job
Women naturally think that because of the importance of children to the world, their children come first
God says ‘no’. The love you have with your husband comes first. The love you have with your children comes second.


The word ‘Holy’ means sacrifice. Love that includes sacrifice is Holy Love
Love without sacrifice can screw up your life
Love with sacrifice can transform your life


You expect your partner to love you with all his heart, mind, strength and soul
That is not going to happen
But if you both make an oath that you will be loyal to the love between you
from now until the day you die
and if you both renew that vow every day of your life, with effort and with sacrifice
it will happen


Being active in a religion makes it easier for you to keep to that oath
Religions attract imperfect people, and humans always pretend to be what they’re not
But if, to achieve what you want to achieve, you have to associate with others as human as you
that will be a price worth paying



God expects a love relationship to last forever because that relationship is with him

You commit to the love, not to your partner
Your partner is the vehicle through which you express that commitment
After death that focus moves from your partner to God.


Interchange or substitute ...
husband / wife / partner / male / female / other / manog / non manog / multiple etc.
Whatever you are, it is the love you commit to
Once created, you commit to it every single day for the rest of your life
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